The warmth of the sun. Sparkling water. A gentle breeze bearing the scent of the earth. A feeling that all is well. Home. Or something like it.
Not Too Random
Wednesday, December 31, 2025
Monday, January 1, 2024
Dreaming of Ladakh
Ladakh is a place of distances. Not just because of the time it can take to get from one place to another, but also because it’s a place that can challenge you to expand your mind.
It’s a place of varied vistas — snow, rock, dust, greenery, sand, water. And everywhere, mountains. And the expansive sky.
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On some journeys you’re sandwiched in a snaking convoy of olive green; army trucks carrying people and supplies across the region. On other roads you can go for an hour or more without encountering another human. Sometimes, it’s unclear where the road is and you decide it’s wherever your vehicle is!
Often, it all feels very profound. The immense never-ending sky, the chortens, the monasteries perched far up the side of a mountain, the ever-present five-coloured prayer flags snapping in the wind, lines of prayer wheels, the Indus or one of its tributaries meandering alongside the road. So much so that you begin to believe that in a moment or two the meaning of life will be revealed to you and that eternity is around the corner.
And then, around the corner, is an egg yolk-yellow road sign that declares ‘Be gentle on my curves’.
But as Robert Louis Stevenson wrote in a 1878 essay titled El Dorado: “Little do ye know your own blessedness; for to travel hopefully is a better thing than to arrive, and the true success is to labour.”
So, it’s best to suspend all thought and luxuriate in Ladakh. In its people, food, history, culture and those vistas that bridge distances.
Sunday, December 31, 2023
Lessons?
Sleep was elusive. But daybreak was still some way off. And counting sheep has never worked for me. So, I let my mind wander. And as it flitted from thing to thing, I found myself wondering “have I learnt anything this year.” And then, I drifted off into Somnus’ embrace once more.
In the morning, I found myself returning to the question: “What have I learnt this year.” My instinctive response was “not much.” But the more I thought about it, the more I realised that I had learnt — relearnt rather — a few things this year. Most of these are rather mundane, the sort of mental and physical housekeeping that fills our lives. Two ideas stand out though because they were reinforced this year. There’s nothing original about them, but they are my top lessons of the year.
Know where you are: It’s important to know where we are. And it’s desirable to know where we’d like to be. And I don’t mean this in a cartographic or geographical sense alone. This is not to say we should keep evaluating ourselves or our lives every moment. But it is useful to take stock once in a while. And if we find that where we are is where we’d like to be, I guess that would be as close to heaven as we can get on earth.
Change doesn’t have to be sweeping: Change may be the only constant in life. And occasionally, drastic change may be required. Much of the time though, the aggregation of marginal gains can be just as revolutionary. Small continuous improvements or changes can achieve much — often unnoticed — without the trauma and uncertainty that typically accompany a forced, sweeping move. The key is to keep responding to our environment, making the tweaks required to make things better.
Finally, learning is not a destination but a process, a journey. As is relearning.
Wednesday, December 28, 2022
Form with function
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Sunday, January 31, 2021
Looking back
Friday, June 26, 2020
Inside the novel factory
For over half a century, the ‘Gulf’ has been
Eldorado for the people of South Asia, particularly Kerala. As the narrator in Al Arabian Novel Factory reflects, “God
blesses some small Arab country with petrol dollars. And then a tiny sliver of
land far away gets to enjoy some of those blessings… There was a long and
lonely road between the two lands, and it could tell many stories of
sacrifice.












